Unity In The Body of Christ & WIWW Link-Up

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I love this image above – it is SO powerful.  It shows how the two eggs on the outside may differ but on the inside they are the same.  I think of my two children – one boy and one girl.  On the outside, they are very different and when they fight it makes this mama miserable!  All I want is for my two children to GET ALONG!  When they play cheerfully for over an hour together without needing a referee, this mom-heart is blessed! 

You see what’s on the outside is different but their hearts are the same. The cross says they are both sinners in need of God’s grace and forgiveness.

How Can We Have Peace With Our Sisters in Christ?

Peace is a key word in Ephesians 2:11-22.  It is repeated four times.

Ephesians 2:14 says “For He himself is our peace.

Peace begins with God.  We must first make peace with him before we can find peace with one another.

From there verse 14 goes on “who has made the two one and has destroyed the barrier, the dividing wall of hostility.”

During Bible times, there was a huge amount of hostility between the Jews and Gentiles.  They literally had a wall in the temple that seperated the Jews from the Gentiles. 

The word Gentile in the greek is “ethnos” from which the word “ethnic” is derived. 

The Jews and Gentiles were different on the outside, this made Ephesians 2:15 and 16 revolutionary! It says, Jesus created “one new man out of the two thus making peace, and in this one body to reconcile both of them to God through the cross by which he put to death their hostility.”

Jesus put to death hostility in the body of Christ!  It is not his will for us to war with one another…but the truth is…there’s always that one chick that kinda gets under your skin…and one thing I have learned is, that woman was put in my life for a reason. 

Like sand paper, it hurts to rub up against her but she smoothes my edges and teaches me how to give grace.

Are you experiencing contention with a sister in Christ?  Extend to her grace. Jesus came to bring you peace with God and to enable you to have peace with your sisters in Christ!  Just as it breaks our hearts as mothers to watch our children argue and fight, it breaks the heart of God to see hostility between two of his children.

Romans 12:18 says “If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone.” NIV

Go to God – make peace with him.  Go to your sister – make peace with her.  And if it’s not accepted by your sister in Christ – you will have peace in your heart knowing you did all that you could to make peace.
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Women around the world are IN THE WORD!

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 Walk with the King!

Courtney, Womenlivingwell.org

Deb Huffaker - February 8, 2012 - 12:15 am

Thanks for your insight into “getting along”. I cling to the scripture “as much as is in you”. Thank you for letting me join!

Hazel Moon - February 8, 2012 - 12:33 am

When God looks at his children, He see’s us all as ONE. a friend I knew put it this way, “A lot of little Jesus’s running around.” Well, if others see Jesus IN US, then I suppose that God might see us in the same way! At lease when He looks at our hearts !!

Hazel Moon - February 8, 2012 - 12:37 am

It is difficult when someone critizes you, especially if it something you are doing for the Lord. But as love is shown soon acceptance will come.

JoLynn - February 8, 2012 - 4:39 am

I recently experienced some tension with a fellow mom and feel that today’s post was God speaking to me about it. Thank you for being his vessel to speak to so many! It is not always easy to think “grace” before or over “righteousness” but God has told us that His grace will bear good fruits EVERY time; prideful righteousness…not so much. Thanks for the reminder!

Joyce@Joyful Creations at Home - February 8, 2012 - 7:09 am

I love the egg analogy! And you words are so true. Like sand paper smoothing my rough edges. Seems like we should be thanking the person who rubs us the wrong way:)

Thanks for the linky, too. I am not sure if my post really fits in with the other link-ups. It’s not really for those who already know Jesus, but as I read Ephesians I just have the lost on my heart. I linked up anyway. Maybe some of you might not mind praying for me and the person the Lord may be trying to reach through my blog.
Love in Him,
Joyce

Dana - February 8, 2012 - 7:14 am

I really needed this today. I have struggled for peace with my boss for the past four years. I feel that everyday I forgive her for the day before but some days it’s hard to feel the peace instead of bitterness. It’s VERY hard for me not to vent my frustration to co-workers and let them vent to me; even though I feel that I will explode if I don’t, I then struggle with the guilt that it is a sin to talk badly about her behind her back. Thank you for your words!

Angie - February 8, 2012 - 9:30 am

What a wonderful article, Courtney, thank you.

Long, long, long story short: I have a natural born sister that “gets under my skin” and I can attest to the sandpaper analogy. Several years ago on account of some bad choices I made, I was in need of a place to live. She graciously offered the basement of her home and I accepted. I thought the “rubbing up against her” was going to kill me. After several stubborn and selfish years on my part, patient and persistent years on God’s part, and calm and humble years on my sister’s part, I am finally learning to give grace and I now thank God for her and how He has used her to smooth my edges. God is so wise, so good, and so patient. His ways are amazing.

“it breaks the heart of God to see hostility between two of his children” – Wow, if that’s not a deterrent I’ve never heard one!

Thank you again!

Laurie Collett - February 8, 2012 - 10:38 am

Beautiful post and great reminder! (Love the egg photo too!) Only through the indwelling Holy Spirit can we even begin to consider each other more highly than ourselves. Without that, peace is not possible.
May you have a blessed week!
Laurie

Jen Thorn - February 8, 2012 - 12:36 pm

Love the egg illustration!I need to tuck that one into the back of my mind to use with my children. What a great picture of the fact that in Christ we are all the same.
Love,
Jen

Angela - February 8, 2012 - 11:06 pm

Ohhh Courtney…..LOVED your post today! This part spoke to my heart: “Peace begins with God. We must first make peace with him before we can find peace with one another.” Sooo true!!

Love God Greatly!
-Angela

diane - February 9, 2012 - 6:32 am

So true! I heard a sermon once on how satan purposely works to put enmity and strife between women, because he knows what we can accomplish for the Lord, when we are all in Agreement. I’m constantly reminded of those words when I feel my skin crawling because of a slight offense. (In fact, I need to find a way to get that sermon put on a CD…it’s on old-school cassette!)
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Whitney - February 10, 2012 - 5:49 am

Ah, Romans 12:18 – a verse quoted often in this house of four children! :) Oh to think of what God could accomplish through us if we could practice unity the way He intends! Thanks for spurring us on, Courtney!

Ginger Hoffman - February 13, 2012 - 5:03 am

“Are you experiencing contention with a sister in Christ? Extend to her grace. Jesus came to bring you peace with God and to enable you to have peace with your sisters in Christ! Just as it breaks our hearts as mothers to watch our children argue and fight, it breaks the heart of God to see hostility between two of his children.” ALL I CAN SAY is AMEN! this post was so encouraging! thank you

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